Posted 05/01/21 in The Headstone Guide
What do you charge for your headstones? How much does a headstone cost? While some clients do not want to talk about money when commissioning a headstone, for others cost is one of the first questions they ask. In this article, I explain how much you might pay for a headstone in the UK, and what factors affect the cost of a headstone.
Posted 08/12/20 in The Headstone Guide
Choosing the right epitaph for a father's or husband's headstone can seem an impossible task. Trying to capture their strength and humanity in a few words is a huge challenge. Taking your time is the best advice we can offer, but here is a list of ideas that will help.
Posted 07/12/20 in The Headstone Guide
What do you put on a mother's or wife's headstone? How can you capture the love and generosity of a woman in a few words? Here are some ideas and inspiration.
Posted 04/12/20 in The Headstone Guide
Should I include the maiden name on a headstone? This is a frequently asked question, and considering the answer has lead me to think that perhaps we should do so more often.
Posted 26/11/20 in The Headstone Guide
What is the best material for a headstone? What type of headstone lasts the longest? These are two of the most common questions I am asked. When deciding on the best headstone material, there are a number of questions you need to ask yourself.
Posted 25/11/20 in The Headstone Guide
Purbeck limestone is a beautifully patterned limestone from Dorset. Its aged appearance means it blends in beautifully in old churchyards.
Posted 11/11/20
We are so thrilled that our new book Headstones- advice and inspiration, is selling really well. We have now sent our first £1000 cheque to Maggie's, Oxford!
Posted 26/08/20 in The Headstone Guide • Bereavement Resources
In this intimate video-interview with his son Laurie, Fergus shares his love for his work, especially headstones, and introduces his new book: Headstones -advice & inspiration.
Posted 02/06/20
Government guidelines state that our business can be open as we provide "essential services". Visitors are welcome by appointment, as long as we follow the NAMM guidelines outlined in this article.
Posted 31/03/20 in Workshop life
A project to send letters to the elderly in our community.
Posted 24/03/20 in The Headstone Guide
Ordering a headstone online is not only possible but also far easier than you would imagine thanks to our new sourcebook of ideas and the use of the internet for exchanging photographs and ideas. You can still collaborate with Fergus in making a unique headstone.
Posted 15/03/20
In light of the Coronavirus outbreak, many of you will be unable to travel to visit the workshop. It is still perfectly possible to choose a headstone without visiting. Here I lay out how the process might work.
Posted 09/03/20 in Workshop life
An alternative to the traditional handshake is the Indian "Namaste" greeting. I wanted to share this with you and I hope you will try it and share it with others. It makes you feel really connected with others.
Posted 07/03/20 in The Headstone Guide • Bereavement Resources
Top local florist Rebecca Walker from Wild Flower Studios shares her approach to sympathy flower arrangements, with beautiful ideas and inspiration.
Posted 04/03/20
Our stunning headstones for graves are all individually hand-carved. Here are 10 recent examples of our beautiful memorials.
Posted 28/02/20 in The Headstone Guide • Bereavement Resources
This is a short video bringing together advice and inspiration on choosing a headstone epitaph.
Posted 22/02/20 in The Headstone Guide
When choosing a headstone you may wish for something unusual or unique.
Posted 14/02/20 in The Headstone Guide • Workshop life • Bereavement Resources
We will shortly be publishing a new book called Headstones- Advice and Inspiration and will be selling it to raise money for Maggie's Cancer Charity in Oxford.
Posted 11/02/20 in Commemorative plaques
On the 30th April 2019, I was invited to the official unveiling of a plaque I created to mark the city of Oxford civil war ramparts.
Posted 29/11/19 in The Headstone Guide
When people talk about commissioning a bespoke memorial, they search online for bespoke memorials and are offered a range of options by stonemasons. However, are they truly bespoke? Our memorials are completely bespoke, from start to finish and here we explain why.
Posted 21/10/19 in The Headstone Guide
Carvings of flowers often appear as a symbols on a gravestone often for their simple beauty. Here I share some of the symbolism associated with flowers and also provide inspiration and ideas.
Posted 17/10/19 in The Headstone Guide • Bereavement Resources
Choosing beautiful words to put on a headstone is one of the most important stage of choosing a headstone. But what will be approved by the vicar? Here I share a list of epitaphs suggested by one of the dioceses themselves.
Posted 16/10/19 in The Headstone Guide
What is usually put on a headstone? How do I choose a headstone inscription? These are the first questions people often ask, and a good place to begin when choosing a headstone.
Posted 11/10/19 in Workshop life
Our workshop is located in the village of Milton under Wychwood in the Cotswold Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty. We are only just over an hours' drive from London, and there are some wonderful pubs to visit as well as many beautiful villages, should you decide to make a trip to the workshop part of an extended visit.
Posted 09/10/19
Whenever possible we install (fix) our headstones using the "Monolith" method, which fully complies with British Safety Standard BS8415 which must be met by most cemeteries. This method is clearly approved by the National Association of Memorial Masons.
Posted 11/06/19 in Workshop life
We were thrilled and honoured to be winners of a 2019 West Oxfordshire Business Award in the Micro-business category!
Posted 11/06/19 in The Headstone Guide
A recent review received by a client after we made a headstone for her husband. The review captures the ethos of our workshop and the results we strive for.
Posted 17/05/19 in The Headstone Guide
We are often asked to carve a sun disc on our headstones. In this post I explore the rich symbolic meaning of the sun.
Posted 01/03/19 in Workshop life
We are often asked if we are NAMM registered. NAMM (The National Association of Memorial Masons) has a register of approved fixers called the RQMF, which we are included on. We also have full public liability insurance up to £5 million.
Posted 14/02/19 in Workshop life
Last night Fergus attended a reception at the Burford Garden Company where the finalists for the West Oxfordshire Business Awards were announced and we were thrilled to learn we have been selected as one of the finalists! We are very proud of our team and our work.
Posted 11/02/19 in Workshop life
We were delighted to be shortlisted for a West Oxfordshire Business Award 2019, in the category of Best Micro Business. We were visited by two members of the WOBA team and we were asked to share our business ethos and vision for the Workshop.
Posted 22/01/19 in The Headstone Guide
The image of a boat has been used on headstones for centuries by many civilizations. The boat lends itself well to carving, as it can be simplified and stylised. It is a romantic symbol, a symbol of a journey but also a symbol of safety and refuge.
Posted 13/12/18 in The Headstone Guide
A selection of Bible verses for headstone epitaphs which are both uplifting and comforting.
Posted 06/12/18 in The Headstone Guide
Have you even thought about choosing your own headstone? Leaving some guidance in your will could be a great help to your family.
Posted 01/10/18 in The Headstone Guide • Bereavement Resources
Fergus offers further advice on choosing an epitaph, with over 200 more examples from poetry, literature and lyrics.
Posted 20/09/18 in Workshop life
This summer I was involved in an exciting project at the Royal Albert Hall which we call the "Canopy of Stars", a walkway of stars dedicated to key players in the Hall's history.
Posted 13/07/18
Advice on dealing with the loss of a loved one, which brings me comfort. It reminds me how lucky I was to have been so loved and to have loved so deeply.
Posted 08/06/18 in Bereavement Resources
Our experience of a DIY or family led funeral. We describe how we kept our mother at home and gave her the most beautiful and personal send off possible.
Posted 16/06/17 in Workshop life
Tom's third diary entry explains the importance of knowing your letterforms inside and out.
Posted 07/06/17
The task of commissioning a headstone can be a painful process as it can be perceived as a final act of saying goodbye. This can bring up many emotions and perhaps a reluctance to face them. If you find yourself in such a place, perhaps the process outlined below can help you.
Posted 02/05/17 in Workshop life
Our apprentice Tom Wiggins shares his experience during his second week at the Workshop. Fergus also demonstrates how to cut the letter "I".
Posted 28/04/17
Our new apprentice, Tom Wiggins shares his experience in the first of a series of blogs on his Diary of a Letter Carver.
Posted 27/03/17 in Commemorative plaques • Workshop life
This month James and I spent some glorious days in the sunshine carving a large architectural inscription at St Edward's School, Oxford.
Posted 10/03/17 in The Headstone Guide • Bereavement Resources
Are you struggling to find the right wording for your loved one's headstone? You should not have to do this alone. Kerry Ingham, a bereavement counsellor offers some direction and support.
Posted 10/10/16
This month I am proud to be a part of an exhibition at National Trust's Sutton House called "Life Death Whatever". I was asked to make a fine hand-carved headstone for the event.
Posted 15/09/16 in The Headstone Guide • Workshop life
Last week Stoneletters was the proud winner of a Good Funeral Award for "Best Maker of Hand Carved Memorials in an Indigenous Material". The award is a real accolade and testament to all of Fergus's hard work and devotion to his clients.
Posted 13/06/16
What does "Getting it Right" mean? It is a journey that the client has felt part of, and when this happens, I feel we have "got it right".
Posted 10/06/16
Musings on the importance of the senses while carving letters....
Posted 09/05/16
We currently have an exciting opportunity for a new letter carving apprentice to join our team.
Posted 17/03/16 in Workshop life
Capturing in great detail, the carving of letter D in slate. This video gives you a feel for the fluidity of the chisel with the hand, and the accuracy and attention to detail that is required to carve letters by hand.
Posted 15/03/16 in Bereavement Resources
For anyone who has had a stillborn baby or has lost a child, I have compiled a selection of comforting poems and funeral readings. In time these may also provide inspiration or ideas for an epitaph or headstone quote.
Posted 04/02/16 in The Headstone Guide • Bereavement Resources
A collection of comforting funeral readings for funerals and memorial services. Words from these may also be inspiration for memorial epitaphs.
Posted 21/01/16 in The Headstone Guide • Bereavement Resources
Here is a list of funeral poems which I hope will provide some comfort and peace.
Posted 11/01/16 in The Headstone Guide
Epitaphs from poems can be stunning from a distance, and if carved with great rhythm, they will draw people in to read the beautiful words.
Posted 11/01/16 in The Headstone Guide
When you want to erect a new memorial or add an inscription to an existing memorial in a churcyard there is usually a fee to pay. Here is a list of the updated Church of England Fees for 2016.
Posted 10/12/15 in The Headstone Guide
I have been making headstones for fifteen years. I hope this article helps people who are thinking about a headstone. My biggest piece of advice is to take your time.
Posted 17/11/15 in The Headstone Guide
This is a brief summary of the Oxfordshire Churchyard Regulations which apply to our clients. Clients are often worried about regulations, but vicars tend to be very helpful and encourage unique, hand carved headstones.
Posted 09/11/15 in The Headstone Guide • Bereavement Resources
I am often asked what wording is allowed on a headstone which is to go in a churchyard. Unfortunately, there are often no hard and fast rules. Below I shall summarise the main guidelines and offer advice based on over ten years' experience.
Posted 03/11/15 in Workshop life
Last October we had a visitor, a self-taught letter cutter to our workshop for three days. He has been kind enough to share his experience with us in this blog post.
Posted 08/10/15 in The Headstone Guide • Bereavement Resources
Choosing a headstone or memorial for a child must be the hardest thing to do. I have collected together some beautiful epitaphs and quotes for children as well as some examples of headstones which I hope will provide some comfort and inspiration.
Posted 22/06/15 in Workshop life
The process of carving a heraldic crest of a choirboy playing B flat on a recorder, into Hopton Wood limestone.
Posted 18/05/15 in Workshop life
A fine, unique headstone was made for the late Elizabeth Grant with a relief carving of a dove, which now sits in the beautiful Kensal Green Cemetery, London.
Posted 06/05/15 in The Headstone Guide
Some beautiful examples of epitaphs inspired by poetry.
Posted 30/04/15 in Typography • Workshop life
An exhilarating video of a week cutting in the clouds. I love large scale architectural lettering and when the sun is shining there is no better place to be than up high with a chisel!
Posted 23/03/15 in The Headstone Guide
Gravestone installation is a very important part of my work; I prefer to install all of my gravestones myself using the Monolith fixing method wherever possible. Here I explain how we fix our headstones, and I describe the pros and cons of monolith and dowel (pin) fixings.
Posted 15/01/15 in The Headstone Guide
A case study into the thought process and decision making that goes into choosing the wording of a memorial for Hugh Stubbs, by his daughter Kitty Allan.
Posted 06/01/15 in The Headstone Guide
Lettering is only a small part of a gravestone design. Almost all of my headstones incorporate a small carving of a symbol or motif. Choosing a symbol is often difficult and may be inspired by something your loved one was passionate about or simply an image from nature. Here are some symbols from my headstones which I hope will inspire you.
Posted 13/10/14 in The Headstone Guide
Choosing a memorial quote or epitaph for a headstone can be very difficult. Here is a freshly updated list of tasteful epitaphs and quotes for headstones, many of which I have carved into headstones myself.
Posted 18/09/14 in Commemorative plaques
Choosing the right wording and material for an official opening plaque is crucial. Here I list some do's and don'ts when deciding.
Posted 15/09/14
This is my biography, the story of my path to becoming a letter carver. It began at an early age when I played with pieces of type on the floor of the Whittington Press.
Posted 15/09/14 in The Headstone Guide
Have you ever seen a truly bespoke, hand carved headstone? These headstones are nothing like those seen in the catalogues of monumental masons. This selection of headstones is to give you an insight into our work.
Posted 14/09/14 in Typography • Workshop life
Lettering in stone can look stunning in a garden setting. Examples of our work include slate obelisks and garden wall plaques. Hand carved lettering in stone can also be used for sundials, bird baths, benches and water features.
Posted 14/09/14 in The Headstone Guide
A selection of 10 stunning green slate headstones and memorials to inspire you.
Posted 12/09/14 in The Headstone Guide
Traditional headstones are seeing a slow but steady revival in our UK churches thanks in part to the internet where letter cutters are able to promote their fine work.
Posted 12/09/14 in The Headstone Guide
Here I address some of the most frequently asked questions about headstone design.
Posted 12/09/14 in The Headstone Guide
Portland Headstones to inspire you. Portland limestone is a natural British material which improves with weathering. These headstones give you an idea of the versatility of the stone, although the lettering needs to be large enough to read without the need to paint it, and in time as it weathers the letters need to be cut deep and large enough to remain legible. Carving letters along the edge is very effective.
Posted 11/09/14 in The Headstone Guide
Our hand carved memorials are hand made with meticulous attention to detail. This sets us apart from others.
Posted 10/09/14 in The Headstone Guide
Here are 10 fine examples of hand carved slate headstones to inspire you.
Posted 09/09/14 in The Headstone Guide
People often ask me about cleaning gravestones, and the answer I usually give is not to do so unless absolutely necessary! If you are determined to clean a gravestone, I share some tips in this article.
Posted 05/09/14 in The Headstone Guide
Headstone materials- how do you choose? Here I list 7 of the best, all of which look beautiful in a natural churchyard setting.
Posted 05/09/14 in The Headstone Guide
Choosing an inscription for a headstone can be a daunting and stressful prospect. Here I offer advice to help you begin.
Posted 31/08/14 in The Headstone Guide
Are cremation memorials the new headstones? Lack of space means that cremation memorials are in demand. However there is scope for interesting and creative design.
Posted 08/07/14 in Typography
Video of hand carved lettering in stone carved in Portland limestone.
Posted 08/07/14 in The Headstone Guide
Choosing the right headstone material is crucial and it is hard to know where to begin. Do you start with the inscription, or the stone? Here I suggest 8 questions you need to ask when considering what material to use.
Posted 04/07/14 in The Headstone Guide
Choosing a headstone is a huge undertaking and should never be rushed. Do not feel hurried and pushed into deciding too soon. Here I share 4 good reasons to take your time.
Posted 04/07/14 in Workshop life
My list of the most important tools needed for letter carving in stone- a good starting point if you are beginning.
Posted 13/05/14 in The Headstone Guide
Here are my top ten tips for choosing a headstone inscription, one of the most challenging part of commissioning a headstone.
Posted 12/05/14 in The Headstone Guide
Dying Matters commissions new study which shows that half of all couples do not know how their partner would like to depart this world.
Posted 10/05/14 in Workshop life
Crest carved in limestone for Alan Titchmarsh
Posted 06/05/14 in Typography
Lettering in Hopton Wood stone; a garden wall plaque with musings of the great Ivor Cutler.
Posted 26/04/14 in The Headstone Guide
This beautiful bespoke memorial was meticulously shaped by hand to make a fine, smooth pebble stone.
Posted 29/03/14 in Workshop life
I love making sundials, because there are rules to be followed. They have to be just right otherwise they have no function.
Posted 26/03/14 in Workshop life
The latest sundial in the workshop in progress.
Posted 25/03/14 in Typography
A visit to Winchcombe Pottery where I worked for six years, and reflections on the path which took me to lettering and the link between letters and pots.
Posted 18/03/14 in Workshop life
A wonderful afternoon spent visiting Pigotts, Eric Gill's former home: a fascinating place steeped in history. I trained under Lida Kindersley, who was married to David Kindersley. He in turn trained under Eric Gill, so my work owes much to Eric Gill's tradition.
Posted 10/03/14 in The Headstone Guide
Circular lettering for a headstone epitaph.
Posted 25/02/14 in Typography
Beautiful Egyptian hieroglyph of quail chick.
Posted 25/02/14 in Workshop life
Gilding a sundial in the workshop.
Posted 23/07/13 in Workshop life
This winter I was asked to carve and build an obelisk sundial for Buscot Park to celebrate the diamond jubilee of HM The Queen. But this was no ordinary Egyptian copy. For a start it has 6 sides rather than 4 and its main function is to hold a vertical sundial.
Posted 18/05/11 in Commemorative plaques
The Antarctic Memorial plaque I carved was dedicated following a special Evensong on 10 May 2011. Here is a photograph of the finished plaque.
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