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Bespoke Headstones

HAND-CARVED HEADSTONES

Hand-carved headstones as unique and exquisite as the lives they commemorate.

It’s in our nuances that we are remembered. Movements, expressions, words, and a voice that are unmistakably our own. We believe that, with care and precision, these memories can be captured and expressed through a handmade headstone.

Hand-carving a headstone is a slow and meticulous process. Each headstone is designed, masoned, drawn-out, and cut by hand'; they may be contemporary or traditional, but are all bespoke and unique. Often minor revisions require whole sections to be wiped off and re-drawn. It doesn’t matter, though. A headstone will stand as a mark of the life of someone who was cherished, so we want it to be perfect.

Working by hand is important to us, it means that we have control over the movement of each letter, or the shadows created by the depth of each line. Every step in the process is carried out with steady thoughtfulness. We aim to reflect a person’s memory through something that is truly one-of-a-kind. This cannot be achieved by using machinery or templates.

Hand-carved headstones as unique and exquisite as the lives they commemorate.

Unique green slate bespoke headstone
BESPOKE HEADSTONES

What makes our bespoke headstones special?

Our hand-carved tombstone headstones are special because they are made in close collaboration with you. A mutual trust is established. You will be encouraged to visit the workshop and you will feel part of the process.

Much of this affinity is generated in the initial consultation, usually here in the workshop. We will ask about the inscription and if undecided will sit down and gently look at examples and options. There are always many examples in the workshop in various states of completion which are often inspiring. Design and materials are discussed as well as the general process of making. Materials include slate, Portland, Yorkstone and Aurisina.

Then we will give you space and time to think and decide. Nothing is rushed or pushed. Taking your time is crucial.

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Headstones book

Choosing a headstone

Each person we commemorate is individual, and therefore every headstone is unique. This means we do not have a catalogue you can choose from. You may be finding it hard to know where to begin and you may be struggling to choose the right words. There may be particular challenges involved in choosing a headstone for a couple for example.

The process of deciding what should go on a headstone is different for everyone, and it is normal and okay to change your mind; it is part of the journey. To help you in choosing, we have written a book called Headstones: Advice and Inspiration. It comprises over 150 photographs of our contemporary headstones in the UK, as well as design ideas, epitaphs and client stories.

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How much does a headstone cost?

Each headstone we design, carve and install is unique and because of this, we do not have a list of prices. Variables such as size and material used, the length and complexity of the inscription, and the distance we need to transport it all factor into the cost.

As we are a small workshop making bespoke headstones by hand, things can take time and we always have a waiting list. Many clients are happy to wait, knowing the project is in good hands. The time also allows reflection of design and changes of mind. It is a journey after all. Furthermore, the longer one leaves the grave to settle the better. Too many people are rushed into making a choice before they (and the ground) are ready.

A headstone starts at around £6000 + VAT and will usually include the installation. After a brief discussion of your requirements, I will be able to give an indication of costs, either over the phone or in an email. Visiting the workshop is a popular choice, and we actively encourage it as it facilitates collaboration and understanding, although it is possible to work remotely.

As a parent, having the sense that a headstone has been created especially and totally for the child that you've lost, meant such a lot to us.

Tim and Fiona Spargo-Mabbs
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More about bespoke headstones

Creating Unique Memories with Bespoke Headstones

The loss of a loved one is a profound experience. It's a time of grief, reflection, and remembrance.

In this process, a headstone serves as a lasting tribute. It's more than a marker; it's a testament to a unique life lived.

Bespoke headstones offer a way to capture this individuality. They allow for personalisation, reflecting the distinct personality and memories of the deceased.

This article explores the art of creating unique memories with bespoke headstones. It delves into the importance of skilled craftsmanship, the emotional significance of these pieces, and the journey of collaboration between the client and Fergus.

Creating Unique Memories with Bespoke Headstones

The Emotional Significance of Bespoke Headstones

Bespoke headstones play a crucial role in the grieving process. They provide a tangible link to the past, allowing loved ones to honour and remember.

Each stone tells a story, capturing the essence of the individual it commemorates. Through careful design and thoughtful personalisation, these monuments become a source of comfort.

The unique elements of a custom headstone convey more than dates; they express emotion and love. Crafting these tributes requires sensitivity and understanding, ensuring that each monument reflects the unique life it honours. Such care helps create a meaningful and enduring legacy.

The Emotional Significance of Bespoke Headstones

Collaborating with our clients for Custom Headstones

Creating a custom headstone is a collaborative journey. It requires a strong partnership between the client and Fergus, with open communication. This connection ensures that the final design truly reflects the individual's personality and story.

Fergus offers guidance throughout this process, drawing on his experience and skills. He helps clients navigate design choices, from materials to inscriptions. This collaboration ensures that the stone is as unique and special as the life it commemorates. Through such teamwork, a beautiful and fitting tribute is crafted.

Collaborating with our clients for Custom Headstones

Contemporary Headstones: Modern Tributes for a Modern Age

Contemporary headstones offer a fresh take on memorial tributes. These designs break from tradition, introducing sleek lines and modern aesthetics. They appeal to those seeking a unique and updated look.

Incorporating modern designs freely drawn rather than from a set template, contemporary headstones capture the innovative spirit. They might symbolize progress and the forward-thinking nature of the person commemorated. Such designs truly honour those who embraced modernity in life.

Contemporary Headstones: Modern Tributes for a Modern Age

The Art of Personalisation in Headstone Design

Personalising a memorial involves capturing the essence of a loved one's character. It starts with selecting elements that reflect personal stories or achievements. This unique touch makes each headstone a genuine tribute.

Incorporating cherished symbols or motifs adds depth to the design. The choice of typography and inscriptions further conveys individuality. Together, these details create a heartfelt, lasting memory.

The Art of Personalisation in Headstone Design

Choosing the Right Materials and Carving Techniques

Selecting the appropriate materials is crucial for both beauty and durability. Options range from traditional stones like Portland to more contemporary options like Slate. Each choice offers distinct visual properties.

The letter-cutting technique also significantly impacts the headstone's appearance. Hand-carving provides energy and freedom that you can't achieve using a machine.

Choosing the Right Materials and Carving Techniques

Navigating Cemetery Regulations and Creating a Durable Memorial

Understanding cemetery regulations is essential when designing a bespoke memorial. Each cemetery may have unique rules regarding size and materials, impacting design choices. Following these guidelines ensures a smooth installation process.

Durability is another key consideration for a long-lasting memorial. Weather-resistant materials like slate offer longevity. They ensure the tribute remains intact for future generations to appreciate.

Navigating Cemetery Regulations and Creating a Durable Memorial

Conclusion: Honouring Legacies with Bespoke Headstones

The Importance of a Skilled Artisan's Touch

The expertise of a skilled artisan brings a stone to life, capturing the essence of the individual honoured. Their craftsmanship ensures that each headstone is a unique work of art.

An artisan's experience and sensitivity play a crucial role in this process. They provide guidance and support, resulting in a tribute that resonates with the client's vision.

Bespoke headstones are more than markers; they celebrate lives and preserve memories. Selecting a skilled artisan ensures these tributes are crafted with care and distinction, creating lasting legacies for generations to cherish and reflect upon.

The Importance of a Skilled Artisan's Touch

Headstones Frequently Asked Questions

What should go on a headstone?

Sometimes, less is more, and when it comes to headstones, we encourage people to keep things simple. At the very least we recommend including the person’s name, date of birth, date of death and age.

Some people also like to include a message on the front, side, or back of the headstone. This could be a poem, an extract from a piece of literature, or a quote from the bible. Some might also want to consider a symbol, icon, pattern, or other visual design. Popular options are animals, flowers, plants, or other stylised depictions, for example, of an angel. Considering the choice of songs and words at the person’s funeral might help you think of a message for the headstone.

What symbols can you carve on a headstone?

Because we carve our headstones by hand we are not restricted to templates and any set of symbols or carvings. This means that almost any symbol that you can draw can be carved on a headstone. However, we need to be careful to keep the carving fairly simple and stylised if it is to look good on stone. Carvings can be in relief (sunken or raised) or sometimes a simple line drawing. For inspiration see this post on gravestone symbols

How long does it take to make a headstone?

Our headstones are special, and as we are a small workshop making headstones by hand, things can take time and we always have a waiting list. Many clients are happy to wait, knowing the project is in good hands. The time also allows reflection of design and changes of mind. It is a journey after all. Furthermore, the longer one leaves the grave to settle the better. Too many people are rushed into making a headstone before they (and the ground) are ready.

Our waiting list is usually two years from the point of order. This may change from month to month so please get in touch to find out more.

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Every member of our team strives for perfection, combining traditional tools and techniques with a fresh and open-minded approach. This is what makes us special.

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